My daughter, who turns four next week, has kept active this summer by scaling rock walls at various playgrounds, riding her bike around our neighborhood, doing “sprints” in our backyard (she wants to run like her mommy someday), and pummeling her younger brother and sister when their teeth get too close to her limbs.
Some of her peers to the North, however, are finding more “non-traditional” ways to exercise.
Tweens and children as young as five are taking pole-dancing classes at a studio in Ottawa.
Oh, and the studio offers kids birthday parties too.
The media has extolled the physical and psychological benefits of pole-dancing for a few years now. Not just for strippers anymore, poll dancing can help women lose weight, tone the tummy, and embrace their inner sexpot, which helps their relationships.
It’s not something I would feel comfortable doing (13 years of Catholic school education will do that to you), but hey, if you’re an adult and looking for a fun group exercise class, I say, go for it.
But for me, there’s something deeply disturbing about young girls pole-dancing.
The studio’s owner says, “Kids love the pole” and that “Children have no (erotic) association with the pole whatsoever” because they see poles at playgrounds, fire houses, and circuses. She contends that the focus of the kids’ classes is fitness and technique, and not stripper moves.
But if it’s all innocent, non-sexualized fun and a great way for kids to avoid the allure of the Playstation and the television, why do the pole-dancing classes have names such as “Bellylicious,” “Sexy Flexy,” “Pussycat Dawls,” and “Promiscuous Girls“?
There’s a lot that’s wrong with these classes. Young girls are exposed to overtly sexual images at very young ages. From inappropriately short and skimpy clothing, to not-so-innocent music and movie idols, to messages that in order to be accepted, they must wear make-up, have mani-pedis, and dress much older than they actually are.
And because there is no denying the sexual history of the pole, five-year-olds don’t need to know how to dance on, around, or near it, no matter how “rockin” their abs might look from taking the classes.
Last time I checked, a six-pack wasn’t required to get into Kindergarten.
What do you think of pole-dancing classes for young girls?
Ick. There’s no way I would ever enroll one of my daughters in a class titled “Promiscuous Girls” (or the like). And really, how can one dance around a poll and not look provocative?
My concern would be, what someone would say, when faced with a 6yr old who announces in Sunday School class that ‘her and mummy do pole dancing together’… What happened to enjoying a pole – in the asymetrical sense – that is, at gymnastics class!??
However, I would like to try it out, myself, and I’m 34 so no worries there
3 COMMENT FROM Kelly August 12, 2010 at 2:23 pm
Double Ick. Exercise-great. Anything for children including the words sexy or promiscuous-NOT.
This does not fall under my ideas of keeping children young as long as is reasonably possible, so that would be a big no for my daughter … at least until she’s in college or so. Myself? probably not … I’m a bit self conscious.
6 COMMENT FROM Christine August 12, 2010 at 4:52 pm
While I might sign up for such a class (although probably not with class names such as that), it would absolutely be inappropriate for someone between the ages of 5 and 17. C’mon people. While sure, some kids both boys and girls would love to twirl around a pole (we had poles of about 8 inches in diameter in our basement – for support!) and I remember spinning around them…but uh, it was absolutely nothing sexualized. I find this just so ridiculous.
7 COMMENT FROM Juanita August 13, 2010 at 9:46 am
I am not easily shocked, but you got my attention with this one.
Just how does one explain to a 5yr old where pole dancing originated?
Has society now moved from exploiting young woman…. to the youngest of children, under the guise of “exercise?!”
Please, could we just let kids be kids!
8 COMMENT FROM Jay August 15, 2010 at 7:05 pm
This is absolutely disgusting and disturbing. I don’t want to see a woman on a pole, why the hell would I want to see a child do this. Anyone who puts their child in a class like this should be arrested. Perverts!
@Melissa-Exactly. I do not understand how these kids can participate in this class and not appear sexualized to anyone who watches them.
@Ness-Can you imagine the Q&A in Kindergarten. Teacher: “What are your favorite hobbies?” Young Brittany: “Pole-dancing!”
@Kelly and Mel. I could not agree more.
@Jesser-Girls are sexualized so early, and there are many, other forms of exercise that do not mimic stripping routines.
@Christine-I had that same pole in my basement. But twirling around it was about as far as I went.
@Juanita-I completely agree with you. What’s wrong with ballet or gymnastics?
@Jay-I tend to agree. It does border on child endangerment, in my opinion.
10 COMMENT FROM Sue September 2, 2010 at 9:46 pm
Wow, I am shocked and disgusted. I get that kids might think the pole is a blast, but let’s try to make it child-friendly at least and give it an appropriate name. No kid of mine is going to identify themselves as “sexy” before they are tweens if I can help it.
11 COMMENT FROM Kristi September 2, 2010 at 9:51 pm
Sue-Exactly. If the classes are, as the owner of the studio says, just about fun and exercise, why the creepy and sexualized names? Little girls don’t need this type of “group exercise.”
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Ick. There’s no way I would ever enroll one of my daughters in a class titled “Promiscuous Girls” (or the like). And really, how can one dance around a poll and not look provocative?
My concern would be, what someone would say, when faced with a 6yr old who announces in Sunday School class that ‘her and mummy do pole dancing together’… What happened to enjoying a pole – in the asymetrical sense – that is, at gymnastics class!??
However, I would like to try it out, myself, and I’m 34 so no worries there
Double Ick. Exercise-great. Anything for children including the words sexy or promiscuous-NOT.
This is insane and sick on so many levels. For kids.
For me? Hell, yeah, but I am old so I am allowed.
This does not fall under my ideas of keeping children young as long as is reasonably possible, so that would be a big no for my daughter … at least until she’s in college or so. Myself? probably not … I’m a bit self conscious.
While I might sign up for such a class (although probably not with class names such as that), it would absolutely be inappropriate for someone between the ages of 5 and 17. C’mon people. While sure, some kids both boys and girls would love to twirl around a pole (we had poles of about 8 inches in diameter in our basement – for support!) and I remember spinning around them…but uh, it was absolutely nothing sexualized. I find this just so ridiculous.
I am not easily shocked, but you got my attention with this one.
Just how does one explain to a 5yr old where pole dancing originated?
Has society now moved from exploiting young woman…. to the youngest of children, under the guise of “exercise?!”
Please, could we just let kids be kids!
This is absolutely disgusting and disturbing. I don’t want to see a woman on a pole, why the hell would I want to see a child do this. Anyone who puts their child in a class like this should be arrested. Perverts!
@Melissa-Exactly. I do not understand how these kids can participate in this class and not appear sexualized to anyone who watches them.
@Ness-Can you imagine the Q&A in Kindergarten. Teacher: “What are your favorite hobbies?” Young Brittany: “Pole-dancing!”
@Kelly and Mel. I could not agree more.
@Jesser-Girls are sexualized so early, and there are many, other forms of exercise that do not mimic stripping routines.
@Christine-I had that same pole in my basement. But twirling around it was about as far as I went.
@Juanita-I completely agree with you. What’s wrong with ballet or gymnastics?
@Jay-I tend to agree. It does border on child endangerment, in my opinion.
Wow, I am shocked and disgusted. I get that kids might think the pole is a blast, but let’s try to make it child-friendly at least and give it an appropriate name. No kid of mine is going to identify themselves as “sexy” before they are tweens if I can help it.
Sue-Exactly. If the classes are, as the owner of the studio says, just about fun and exercise, why the creepy and sexualized names? Little girls don’t need this type of “group exercise.”